Five Characteristics I Admire
May 31, 2006 ·
- Reliability - I love to know that I can rely on someone. This is the thing I respect most about my dad. When he says something will be done, it is always done. Without exception. This characteristic requires a perfect record and that is why it is so rare.
- Enthusiasm - We have become a society of constant sensation. It’s numbing people. People are becoming excited and enthusiastic much less often. I believe that when you show excitement, people are much more likely to treat you well. They enjoy your enthusiasm. My wife is superb at this getting giddy and I love it.
- Punctuality - I have an especially hard time when people are late to planned meetings. I believe that tardiness is another way of saying, “I don’t respect you or your time. Whatever I was doing was more important than what you and I will be doing.” I understand that sometimes things happen, but very often those “things” are avoidable. Follow the fifteen minute rule and it will change your life. Whenever you are leaving to a meeting, a show, to chatch a plane, etc, determine the time you should leave and then leave 15 minutes earlier. Your day will be less stressful. Your drive will be more enjoyable. I promise you will never regret getting there a few minutes early. This is applicable to big business meetings and to little family gatherings. This world caters more and more to people that are late. I believe it should be the opposite. Meetings should always start on time no matter the missing attendants. Planes should always leave on time. You get the point. Didn’t mean to go all Adolf.
- Ability to Analyze - I think that a good mind should always be thinking about the “why’s and how’s”. I enjoy thinking about things and I enjoy having conversations with other people that think. Learn one thing new everyday and tell someone about it. You’ll always be an interesting person.
- Kindness To Others - Many people are nice, but putting the needs of others above your own could possibly be the hardest characteristic to perfect. However, I know a few people that do it very well and they seem to be among the happiest people I know. Strange how that happens.
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3 Responses to “Five Characteristics I Admire”


I agree heartily with all that you’ve written especially the part on punctuality. The bit on the lack of respect rings true for me. Along similar lines are presentations and talks. I’m especially annoyed when the first speaker takes like 45 minutes (when they were assigned 15 minutes) and leaves 10 minutes for the keynote speaker (who everyone wanted to hear more than the first speaker). I think that shows lack of respect in many different ways.
I totally agree with everything you just wrote… especailly the 15 min rule… i have done that all my life and now i couldn’t stop if i had to.
good post
Totally agree with your comment about analytical thinking. There’s different types of thinking, but in a real democracy, citizens need to analyze–not just looking at effects but causes, questioning everything we’re told especially by powerful people.